中级9 Be thoughtful

When i say i mean to do it,i mean it.
keep an effect on [sth sb]. impact , influence
it is important [necessary ,essential] that...
when he scold me,he hurt my feelings.
make a remark
bear [remember] these rules in mind
likewise=by the same token
if you plant melon seeds ,you will grow mellons

It is thoughtful of you to remember my birthday.
have an impact on
Whatever a teacher does in the classroom will have an effect on the students.
Peter have special feelings for his cousin\
I have a feeling that Bob 's going to quite his job soon.
The thoughtless remark cost him his job
The secretary made a favorable remark about her boss.
The plane crash reported on TV spoiled my appetite.
Without proper preservation,food spoils easily.
What's your relationship with that girl?
I hurt my thumb trying to hammer a nail into the wall.
It's essential that the nurses learn to be patient.

为别人设想的意思就是在想到自己之前先替别人着想。
你所说或所做的每一件事都会对别人产生影响。
因此，在你说或做任何事情之前先想一下是很重要的。这样的话，你可以避免伤害到别人的感情。
此外，欠缺考虑的行动或言论也可能破坏完美的关系。
记住这些规则：如果你没有好话要说就什么也不要说；同样地，如果你认为你所做的事会伤人的话，那么就别做它。毕竟，种什么因，得什么果。

Being thoughtful simply means thinking of others before yourself.
What you say or do will have an effect on others.
Therefore,it's important that you think before you say or do anything.
In this way,you can avoid hurting other's feelings.
Moreover,thoughtless act or remark may spoil a perfect relationship.
Remember these rules:If you don't have anything nice to say ,don't say anything.
Likewise,If you think what you do will hurt others,don't do it.
After all,what goes around comes around.