1 Introduction: Why Positive Psychology
1.1 Why Positive Psychology
1. The importance of focusing onwhat works
If we focus onwhat is working, we'll have more working in our world, more working inourselves, more working in our relationships.
2. Happiness is not the negation ofunhappiness
Being happy is not justthe negation of happiness. It doesn't mean just get rid of depression oranxiety that I am experiencing, I spontaneously become happy.
3. Prevention through cultivatingcapacity
Prevention which isvery important today, the most effective way of preventing hardship, -- whetherit's depression, whether it's anxiety, -- is actually by focusing on andcultivating the positive
1.2 The importance of focusing on what works
1.2.1 Resilience
1.2.1.1 NOTES
4. Optimistic
They wereoptimistic in the sense of thinking, "well, it may not work well thistime. It will work out later. I have learned from what had just happened."
5. Faith and sense of meaning in life
It was doingsomething that they really believed in.
6. Pro-socialbehaviour
And we enter anupward spiral between self-help and other-help. Because when we help others, weare helping ourselves. When we help ourselves, we help others.
7. Focus on strengths
What am I good at? Whatam I really, really good at?
8. Set goals
They werefuture-oriented, not just thinking about how bad things are today perhaps, butalso thinking about "this is where I wanna be 5 years or 10 years fromnow."
9. A Role model
I want to be like her; I want to be like him.
10. Social support
They had socialsupport. They did not say : "well I am tough enough to do it bymyself." Rather they said: "I'm tough enough to reach out forhelp."
The strength toadmit weaknesses as well, the strength to admit a need.
Now theimportant thing about social support is identifying the right people. Peoplewho, when you reach out to them, will reach back to you and will be able togive back.