Perhaps this is the very undesirability of being a grown-up. Constantly, we should be faced up to many unpleasant difficulties on our own since we are not kids at all. without parents' constant help and encouragement around us, we may feel at loss somewhat. But isn't that a necessary stage for us to transform us from a dependent child to a self-independent one? I think , of course, wil surely grow up to be a robust person in spite of the tough and challeging life day by day！