新年祝福!!!

As I learn and practice more and more,I can say to the one I love:"I love you,I value you,I respect you and I trust that you have the strenght to become all that it is possible for you to become_if I don't get in your way.I love so much that I can set you free to walk beside me in joy and in sadness.I will share your tears but I will not ask you not to cry.I will respond to your needs.I will care and comfort you,but I will not hold you up when you can walk along.I will stand ready to be with you in your grief and loneliness but I will not take it away form you .I will strive to listen to your meaning as well as your word,but I shall not always agree.Sometimes I will be angry and when I am,I will try to tell you openly so that I need not hate our differences or feel estranged. I can not alway be with you or hear what you say for there are times when I must listen to myself and care for myself,and  when that happens I will be as honest with you as I can be." 
  I am learning to say this,whether it be in words or in my way of being with others and myself,to those I love and for whom I care .And this I call loving with an open hand.

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