Chicken Soup for the Soul - December 18

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本文探讨了作者在成长过程中学会避免冲突和表达个人意见的经历，并反思这种行为如何影响到作为父母的角色。作者意识到需要面对内心的恐惧，区分自己作为孩子和成人时的感受，并且认识到在养育子女时也要做出这样的区分。

When I grew up, I learned not to rock the boat; asserting my own opinions and desires could get me in trouble. Sometimes I carry this over in my parenting; I don't take stand or set limits. When my children push or threaten to get angry, the fear I felt as a child comes up and my reaction is to placate them and keep the peace. This is not healty. I need to feel those fears I felt as a child along with the sense of helplessness that overwhelmed me. I need to separate myself as a child from myself as an adult. I also need to separate my inner child from the child I am raising.

Edison