情商高的人都知道这三点（翻译）

A person with high EQ doesn’t often criticize people. That’s because critizing usually doesn’t solve any problem. Everybody wants to solve problems. It’s just that many people don’t know how. And criticizing doesn’t change this.
高情商的人不会经常批评别人。那是因为批评别人通常解决不了任何问题。每个人都想要解决问题。只是很多人不知道怎么做，而批评不能解决这种现状。
Someone with high EQ knows this well. So they only make criticism when they can provide their solutions. And they don’t merely criticize. They will tell you how to make things better. A person who does nothing but criticizing is just trying to find himself a sense of superiority. Someone with high EQ also knows how to see things from other people’s perspectives.
高情商的人知道这一点。所以他们只在能够的到解决方案的时候才会去批评别人。还有他们也不会仅仅只是批评。他们会告诉你怎么使事情变得更好。一个人如果什么都不做只是去批评，只是在寻找一种优越感而已。高情商的人知道怎么样从别人的角度思考事情。
It’s not only taking care of others’ feelings. It’s also a means of getting what you want. Nobody really cares about what you want. And that’s why merely asking for things usually won’t get you those things. if you want someone to help you, you should think about what his needs are and figure out how to make him think it’s good for him to help you.
Someone with high EQ also knows how to listen to others. This is not just about manners. It’s a kind of philosophy of living. One person’s mind is inevitably limited in some way. Knowing how to listen to others can broaden your horizon. A person with high EQ knows this just so well.
情商高的人也知道怎么去倾听别人。这部仅仅是出于礼貌。这是一种生活哲学。在某种意义上，一个人的想法不可避免是有限的。知道怎么去倾听别人能开阔你的视野。一个高情商的人也深深知道这一点。