let arr1 = [
{ key: 1, lable: 11, select: false },
{ key: 2, lable: 22, select: false }
];
let arr2 = [{ key: 2, lable: 22, select: false }];
function diffrence(a, b) {
a = a.map(JSON.stringify);
b = b.map(JSON.stringify);
return a
.concat(b)
.filter(v => !a.includes(v) || !b.includes(v))
.map(JSON.parse);
}
diffrence(arr1, arr2);