It has been a long time that i haven't write down anything in this way. It was because of a book that made me want to write something.(I will tell you about the book later.) I am so happy that I have such a intensive feeling to write an article in English by my gut reaction. I feel lucky when you read it thankful to you no matter who you are,no matter you are my classmates,my friends,my relatives or just a internet friend? I really appreciate it that you are my listeners and audiences now and more grateful if you guys can give me some suggestion,advice or some tips on some ideas,please contact with me and communicate with me when you are available.
There are few things that i want to address before i focus on the love issue. I write this article for two reasons.One is that i have recently read a book concerned about love.And i did learn something from it.Its name is "Chicken soup for the teenage soul series on relationship" composed by Kimberly Kirbeger. I will not put this book into a high position like a masterpiece.But it's beyond doubt that is a good book and worth reading.I recommend you download it from the web and read it on a condition that you have a smartphone or a phone which can work or borrow it from the library or buy the secondhand book in taobao.(Nowadays books are costly and expensive and we nearly can't afford it,let it alone when it comes to a series of books.) I'm sure you will benefit from it and gain something from it. The other one is that i really want to write something about love stuff since i am 21 years old in senior and present my perspectives on love.But it's a little unsatisfied that i am still single now.Only once that i like a girl who already been an item.(Don't worry,i will talk about the whole story in details in the following paragraph.)So these're why i write this essay.
I'm a frank guy and straight with my friends who commit terrible things with my own feelings that even sometimes ignore the friends's.But i just cannot lie to my feelings and want to be a genuine myself.Above all,i don't mean to hurt you guys and that is the thing i never want to happen and to see.I feel guilty,sorry,regretful if i have get your hurt.Please call me or text me if if i do something wrong while i am still finding it.I do cherish our mutual friendship.And i deem it as the one of the best thing in the world that we all consider it as a treasure.
Ok,back to the love stuff.I want to share with you guys that there was a time that i am crazy about,obsessed with her but she's in a relationship with her classmate.In general,I dream a lot of scenarios that if i have a girlfriend like her and i will be the happiest man in the world.Meanwhile,i think she's the most creature that i have seen in the world and she worth being loved and she deserves the best.She has numerous shining qualities that deeply attracts me so much and i lost my mind when think about her.However,i can't control my feelings at that time,so i tell her in different ways that i want to be with her,text her,call her,miss her.Nevertheless,when she declined my request and said we two were impossible and she was single-minded.I am so depressed and heartbroken.I am on a daze during those weeks.I still appreciated that she told me the truth without cheating or hiding.That is so called unrequited love.Though my heart filled with pain and sorrow,but i know i have to move on and try to forget about her.It seems that she has taken a bus while i am tracking down and i feel like to get on it but no matte how fast i run or how hard i try,i just can't approach it and all my efforts are in vain.In addition,i am in a special period that it's the time for study.With January approaching,i know i have to concentrate on my studying and fade her from my memories.I am glad that i make it.Now i am over her gradually and not to think about her when i am studying or resting.Ultimately,i wish that she is happy anyway whether she is in a world with my company or not.Gold bless her!
In retrospect,i feel i am silly because i even chased after a girl who is with someone.I am not this kind of guy who mean to destroy other people's relationship.However,there were some time that i am confused that i keep thinking about her constantly and still regard it is worth to wait for her to turn back just for the possibly of protecting her,loving her,owning her.Maybe it's because that she is so perfect for me.But how i have not been with her and how do i assert that she is perfect for me?So sad i am,i am totally a loser.But it reminds me of i will not do the same stupid thing again and i will not pursuit a girl that doesn't belong to me next time.Besides,there are a sea of girls out of the other open windows and why i am staring at and waiting for the sole closed one to open.I'm not even sure whether i will open or not at last or it will open but at that time i have gone to somewhere far away and can't come back to pick you up.
Love is amazing emotion that will exercise your mind,strength your heart,shape you and make you grow up mature.When you fall in love with someone,you can confide in and make a mutual decision together.(That makes me envious.)When you are in love,you two can hold hands together tightly,she can wrap her hands around his neck affectionately,lean her head on his chest peacefully,he can cuddle her passionately,etc.You two can make out,kiss gently or wildly and do some wonderful stuff(You get it.)That is sweet.I now understand why it is called a couple status.
Last but not the least,love is not merely sex,nor a will to possess.Once i had seen a saying:"My goal in university is to have sex with at least three virgins." How shallow,superficial and ridiculous it sounds.As a matte of fact,i insist on that love is a pure beautiful thing that we shouldn't mingle with fleeting physical sex.But if you two are naturally developed into some level,well,then whereas it's another situation.How can a person achieve his dream with such a mean,dirty intention?I don't get it.In general,there is another thing i want to utter.man/woman has needs occasionally or periodically,but don't feel ashamed of it.That indicates that we are normal and healthy human beings. The resolution is to control yourself.I know is hard,and harder especially when it refer to man who are at an energetic and vigorous age,while men have to learn more,undergo more,undertake more and finally we will reap more.I acknowledge the process is tough but try to get over it.
There are few things that i want to address before i focus on the love issue. I write this article for two reasons.One is that i have recently read a book concerned about love.And i did learn something from it.Its name is "Chicken soup for the teenage soul series on relationship" composed by Kimberly Kirbeger. I will not put this book into a high position like a masterpiece.But it's beyond doubt that is a good book and worth reading.I recommend you download it from the web and read it on a condition that you have a smartphone or a phone which can work or borrow it from the library or buy the secondhand book in taobao.(Nowadays books are costly and expensive and we nearly can't afford it,let it alone when it comes to a series of books.) I'm sure you will benefit from it and gain something from it. The other one is that i really want to write something about love stuff since i am 21 years old in senior and present my perspectives on love.But it's a little unsatisfied that i am still single now.Only once that i like a girl who already been an item.(Don't worry,i will talk about the whole story in details in the following paragraph.)So these're why i write this essay.
I'm a frank guy and straight with my friends who commit terrible things with my own feelings that even sometimes ignore the friends's.But i just cannot lie to my feelings and want to be a genuine myself.Above all,i don't mean to hurt you guys and that is the thing i never want to happen and to see.I feel guilty,sorry,regretful if i have get your hurt.Please call me or text me if if i do something wrong while i am still finding it.I do cherish our mutual friendship.And i deem it as the one of the best thing in the world that we all consider it as a treasure.
Ok,back to the love stuff.I want to share with you guys that there was a time that i am crazy about,obsessed with her but she's in a relationship with her classmate.In general,I dream a lot of scenarios that if i have a girlfriend like her and i will be the happiest man in the world.Meanwhile,i think she's the most creature that i have seen in the world and she worth being loved and she deserves the best.She has numerous shining qualities that deeply attracts me so much and i lost my mind when think about her.However,i can't control my feelings at that time,so i tell her in different ways that i want to be with her,text her,call her,miss her.Nevertheless,when she declined my request and said we two were impossible and she was single-minded.I am so depressed and heartbroken.I am on a daze during those weeks.I still appreciated that she told me the truth without cheating or hiding.That is so called unrequited love.Though my heart filled with pain and sorrow,but i know i have to move on and try to forget about her.It seems that she has taken a bus while i am tracking down and i feel like to get on it but no matte how fast i run or how hard i try,i just can't approach it and all my efforts are in vain.In addition,i am in a special period that it's the time for study.With January approaching,i know i have to concentrate on my studying and fade her from my memories.I am glad that i make it.Now i am over her gradually and not to think about her when i am studying or resting.Ultimately,i wish that she is happy anyway whether she is in a world with my company or not.Gold bless her!
In retrospect,i feel i am silly because i even chased after a girl who is with someone.I am not this kind of guy who mean to destroy other people's relationship.However,there were some time that i am confused that i keep thinking about her constantly and still regard it is worth to wait for her to turn back just for the possibly of protecting her,loving her,owning her.Maybe it's because that she is so perfect for me.But how i have not been with her and how do i assert that she is perfect for me?So sad i am,i am totally a loser.But it reminds me of i will not do the same stupid thing again and i will not pursuit a girl that doesn't belong to me next time.Besides,there are a sea of girls out of the other open windows and why i am staring at and waiting for the sole closed one to open.I'm not even sure whether i will open or not at last or it will open but at that time i have gone to somewhere far away and can't come back to pick you up.
Love is amazing emotion that will exercise your mind,strength your heart,shape you and make you grow up mature.When you fall in love with someone,you can confide in and make a mutual decision together.(That makes me envious.)When you are in love,you two can hold hands together tightly,she can wrap her hands around his neck affectionately,lean her head on his chest peacefully,he can cuddle her passionately,etc.You two can make out,kiss gently or wildly and do some wonderful stuff(You get it.)That is sweet.I now understand why it is called a couple status.
Last but not the least,love is not merely sex,nor a will to possess.Once i had seen a saying:"My goal in university is to have sex with at least three virgins." How shallow,superficial and ridiculous it sounds.As a matte of fact,i insist on that love is a pure beautiful thing that we shouldn't mingle with fleeting physical sex.But if you two are naturally developed into some level,well,then whereas it's another situation.How can a person achieve his dream with such a mean,dirty intention?I don't get it.In general,there is another thing i want to utter.man/woman has needs occasionally or periodically,but don't feel ashamed of it.That indicates that we are normal and healthy human beings. The resolution is to control yourself.I know is hard,and harder especially when it refer to man who are at an energetic and vigorous age,while men have to learn more,undergo more,undertake more and finally we will reap more.I acknowledge the process is tough but try to get over it.
All in all,if you are in love with someone,cherish it,organize it and remember that you are beloved and respect each other.Maybe a new set of problems and trifles comestible in everyday but try to get it down with "your one",put your head together and that absolutely will reinforce your love.I sincerity expect that "every two" can step into the road to the church.If you just broken up or still in the grieving period,try to snap out of it.Build yourself up and there is still many important things that you are supposed to do and many friends are right behind you and waiting for you back.If you have crush on a girl/boy,don't be shy and have the nerve to tell him/her.No matter how it ends,it worth the try.Word to wise:Don't knock it till you tried it.If you are in senior and striving for the master exam,study!study harder!study hardest as you can!
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