英语学习路(一) optimistic

 

      Areyou still a signal now?  Or maybe you have a baby now, but please trust me, some of you ever suffering the big difficulty like me. When you aresingle, it's not just your problem, it's your parents', your relatives’, evenit's your  close neighbors'. With time goes by, you have  a lot moretimes to receive the only topic  betweenyou like "do you have a boy friend? You are not so young yet". Wow,  I  just  want to escape.  Then I start arrangingmy path to marriage. First, find a boy friend, second, let parents accept them,third. …then get marriage.

    I’m lucky, I fell in love with my boy friend at first sight. I wasproud   interrupting my mother intention to introduce me a handsome guy. Then I got a sequence questions youguys guess right. I am ready to talk about his job, his height, his kindness,his hardworking and responsibility. But when I just said the age, the conversation stopped. Because our Chinese zodiacs don’t match. It’s unbelievable the superstation became the first obstacle inmy marriage path. Even I found that it’s obviously  huge  gap. Because the following two years my motherfind some traditional fortunetelling  in famouslocal temple. They give  the samesuggestion. They show me the same information from  the internet. What’s worse, My great auntshows me an example, a couples of her relatives have the same birth of yearlike mine, they did not live   together normally, one of them deadearly because of some diseases. I am not opposed to  her, because mygreat  uncle is a secretary in a high school, and they are so sincere. Maybe I will change myself.

     But my boy friend has a stronger will. He said those are psychology effection. If you believe, it’s true for you, otherwise it’s not.  If we want to get married, we have to persuade our parents accepting us. Chinese zodiac gives me so many good memory in my childhood. Each year, Before NewYear’s eve we bought some new pictures about the next year’s zodiac animal. Youcan see some good wish in it, the little girl with a big ingot riding on thehorse, it stands for your family will  be rich in the next horse year. Ifyou see the monkey in the  antithetical couplet, it maybe  tell youthe next monkey year you will get good fortune. Watching CCTV Spring FestivalGala, eating dumplings with family, you also can get new dress and a little red packets. But now, I hate  it.

     I remember  an interesting  news. Some couples escape giving birth inthe coming sheep year, some pregnant even choose abortion, they believe in “nine percent sheep will die”, they are afraid of the bad fortune,worse fate around their babies.It was so ridiculous and brought others somewrong direction. So experts  tell us it’s not right, it comes from common people unsatisfied with the government threaten them using their zodiac of sheep. I think Chinese feng shui is so popular in the world, especially in Chinese people deep heart. No matter the popular star, or the commonpeople, you can see the wang lin,who is a menter of qigong, Li BingBing , whois a successful movie star,wang fei and Li yapeng ever stars couples , zhao weiwho award too much in different media field. All of them made a visit him andtook group photos, but is he really has the powerful and miracle ability? If it’s  true, why did not he forecast himself before he met a bad fortune? The media exposed his conmanship in the year of  2013. Unfortunately,a few days ago, I saw a news, a  farmer  has sexual intercourse withsome college female students who are superstitious and greedy.
     My boy friend and I use our good personalities to changeour parents’ superstition. We use the scientific examples against superstition.Finally, we  win. It’s closer to the marriage. I know it’s a traditional cultures, but please don’t be silly. You should distinguish it clearlysometimes. When you get lost good fortune, you can calm down at first, thenfind the right way. Please don’t be greedy, if you dream getting a million atone day without actually hard work, it’s definitely infeasible. Please trustthe science, trust psychology effection. Like a story. A teacher will teach themost brilliant students   told by the principal, finally, the principaltold  a lie, but the teacher  proved he has the ability to teach acommon students to most brilliant ones. Don’t let superstition change your life worse.