How to be a confident man?

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最近活得很不开心，不知是不是因为当一个人有所追求，而所追求的又不是自己现在有能力得到的原因？

好累！

也许自己真的做错了，平添了不少烦恼．很讨厌这样的生活．．．

一直就对自己重复着这样的话：从明天起，做回一个自信的我．

一个真正自信的人，是不会为周围的人而改变，不会因周围的环境而左右的．

既然不快乐，就改了吧？

可是真的可以说改就改吗？

往往就有这样的事，明知没有快乐，明知是痛苦的，他还是会对它魂牵梦萦，割舍不了．

唉，算了．一直就是自己想得太多．

明天吧，明天起改变自己．．．．

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