博客探讨了坚韧之人成功的秘诀，指出关键在于如何看待问题。生活总有起伏，问题终会解决。面对困境，可选择消极逃避或积极应对，积极反应需勇气，能掌控问题影响。坚韧之人会积极应对困境，问题不会永存。
What is the secret ingredient of tough people that enable them to secceed? Why do they survivi the tough times when others are overcome by them? Why do they win when others lose?
Why do they soar when others sink?
The answer is evry simple. It's all in how they percive their problems. Yes, every living person has problems. A problem -free life is an illusion----a mirage in the desert. Accept that fact.
Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in times.
You may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your respons. You can turn your pain into profanity---or into poetry. The choice is up to you. You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can shoose how you will react to it. For instance, what is the positive reaction to a terrible financial setback? In this situation would it be the positive reaction to cop out and run away? Escape through alcohol, drug, or suicide? No! Such negative reaction only produce greater problems by promising a temporary "solution" to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrolable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem's effect on you. Your reaction to the problem is the last word! That's the bottom line. What will you do let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.
In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because they've chosen to react positively to their predicament. Tough times never last, but tough people do. Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan. No problem is permanent. Storm always give way to the sun. Winter always thaws into springtimes. Your storm will pass. Your winter will thaw. Your problem will be resolved.
The answer is evry simple. It's all in how they percive their problems. Yes, every living person has problems. A problem -free life is an illusion----a mirage in the desert. Accept that fact.
Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point. Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are they down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in times.
You may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your respons. You can turn your pain into profanity---or into poetry. The choice is up to you. You may not have chosen your tough time, but you can shoose how you will react to it. For instance, what is the positive reaction to a terrible financial setback? In this situation would it be the positive reaction to cop out and run away? Escape through alcohol, drug, or suicide? No! Such negative reaction only produce greater problems by promising a temporary "solution" to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrolable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem's effect on you. Your reaction to the problem is the last word! That's the bottom line. What will you do let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.
In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because they've chosen to react positively to their predicament. Tough times never last, but tough people do. Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan. No problem is permanent. Storm always give way to the sun. Winter always thaws into springtimes. Your storm will pass. Your winter will thaw. Your problem will be resolved.
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